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Southern Hospitality July 1, 2010

Hello everyone!  I am back from my long weekend in the great city of Nashville, TN.  I’m a big fan of Nashville.  I’ve been several times and it’s always fun.  Great music, great shopping (please re-open soon, Opry Mills!), and great food.  This time, I went with my mom and aunt and we had a great girls’ weekend hitting all of the usual tourist traps.  We went to the Country Music Hall of Fame (there is a great exhibit about Hank Williams if you are interested), got our pictures taken on stage at the Ryman (just like Patsy Cline!), and shopped at all of those great tacky souvenir shops on Broadway.


On another day, we toured a couple of interesting homes.  The first was The Hermitage, home of President Andrew Jackson.


What I learned about him is that he was in favor of both slavery and killing Native Americans, and against feminism.  So a great guy.  His wife Rachel is the interesting one.  She was the belle of Nashville society until it was discovered that when she married Andrew, she had neglected to actually annul her marriage to her former husband.  Small details!  But she had amazing taste in decor and the house is stunning.  You can also walk around Rachel’s garden which is beautiful.

By the way, Rachel died of a sudden heart attack, after she fell from grace and right before Andrew left to be inauguated in Washington.  One minute she was the most beloved woman in Tennessee, and the next, she was an outcast.  Sounds like a lot of modern day celebrities, don’t you think?

After that, we decided to make the trek to Hurricane Mills.


If you are unfamiliar, Hurricane Mills is the home of Loretta Lynn.  It is a plantation about 80 miles away from Nashville.  Actually it is a town. Loretta owns a town.  I would like to have my own town also.  But I digress.  The interesting thing about Hurricane Mills is that it is haunted.  If you get the chance, there is a documentary on the Travel Channel about this place that they show a lot around Halloween.  So anyway, we went looking for ghosts.  Okay, you might say most ghosts don’t come out during the day, but there are stories about tour groups seeing strange men on the staircase.  We were hopeful.  The town itself is beautiful.  There is a large creek across from the house and the house is just amazing.


This is exactly the kind of town I would buy if I were a worldwide country music star.  Without the ghosts, of course.  The tour starts at a replica of Loretta’s childhood home.  If you have seen the movie about her life, Coal Miner’s Daughter, you have seen this as it is the replica they built for the movie.

After that, they take you in a tour bus across the street to the house.  This is where our day took a turn.  You walk inside and check out her awesome straight-out-of-the-70s kitchen.  Then the living room, and walk to the foyer.  We got excited here because the foyer and stairs are featured in the Travel Channel show.  The guide showed us the two rooms there (I guess originally they were parlors but are now used as family rooms, kind of).  Then he says, ‘Okay, we’re going outside so you can take some pictures of the house.  There’s a great shot if you stand in front of that tree.’  So off we went to snap photos, thinking this was a temporary jaunt outside and then we would be going back inside and upstairs.  No.  We look over to see the tour guide back inside the bus.  Oh, okay.  Tour over apparently.  I cannot tell you how disappointing this was.  An 80 mile drive there, an 80 mile drive back to the hotel.  An entire afternoon wasted which could have been spent at the outlet mall!  $13 I’ll never get back.  Not to mention the gas money.  All to see four rooms in Loretta’s house.  My point here is to tell you to watch the documentary and skip the trip.

I was happy to get home to my Sadie and my Smarty.  But I do love to get away.  Next trip is to the east coast in August.

 

Bring your kid to work….Never June 24, 2010

Filed under: Office Craziness,Opinion,Random — daisyjacobs @ 2:29 pm
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I was just in the ladies room and in popped a little girl, around 10 years old.   Where did she come from?  Well probably she was a guest at the retirement party for C that everyone but my department was invited to (outcasts!). 

Kids in the workplace is a pet peeve of mine.  This is something that I had never experienced until I came to work here.  People bring their kids in all the time.  And I don’t mean the occasional spouse showing up with the kids for lunch.  I mean they just show up and hang out.  For hours.  I can’t count how many times a screaming 3 year old has come running by my office.  How many times I’ve listened to someone’s infant cry during work hours.  A couple of weeks ago, someone couldn’t get a babysitter, so she just brought her child to work all day.  No, we don’t have on-site day care.  No, we don’t work at a toy company or anything related to children.  Why do kids even want to come here?  I don’t even want to come here and they are paying me.

My mom and I were discussing kids the other day.  Specifically, how people who are parents now seem to never want to leave their kids.  On this day we were at a charity walk with literally 70,000 other people.  It was 95 degrees and very humid.  Basically your normal summer day in the midwest.  But in the midst of this, many small children and babies.  I’m not a parent or a doctor, but I can’t imagine this is the proper weather or conditions to bring your infants outside for hours.  I don’t even make Sadie take walks outside in this weather.  Plus, you’d think people would be worried that they would lose their kids in a crowd this size. 

So, why not just leave them at home?  Are babysitters that hard to come by?  It seems like when we were little, our moms would leave us with the grandparents for these kinds of occasions.  Or you know, our dads.  I was just talking to a co-worker about this.  She was trying to plan a girls weekend with some friends, but one refuses to leave her daughter, with her own husband.  Seriously?  This leads me to another pet peeve, which is when I hear women say that the father of their children is “babysitting.”  I don’t think it is babysitting if it is your own kids.  I’m pretty sure that’s just parenting.

Of course, I’m no expert.

In completely unrelated news….yesterday I got my sandals from GoJane.  The photos on their website did not do them justice.  They are so incredibly adorable and I have gotten many compliments on my silver sandals today.

I’ll be gone the next few days on a girls weekend to Music City, aka Nashville.  Flood waters do not scare us!  Happy weekend, everyone.

 

 
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