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Mel Gibson is a ” f—— pig in heat” July 2, 2010

I’ve been following the Mel Gibson story the past two days in the same way that one can’t help but peek at a car accident.  In case you want the details, you can go to RadarOnline and read this.  It is full of insane cursing, insults, threats and his 8 month old baby crying in the background (so says Radar, obviously no one else has actually heard the tape).

Today, I read this article on The Daily Beast.  It is asking whether or not Mel’s career can recover from this.  They are comparing it to his infamous DUI arrest in 2006 when he proclaimed that Jews are “responsible for all the wars in the world” (hey Mel, does that include Jesus, the most famous Jew of all-time?  Just wondering since you are so ultra-religious) and called the female cop a most ridiculous name.  Here is a quote from the article that caught my eye and inspired me to write about this:

This seems to be the assumption, regardless of the fact that, as Ross Johnson, head of strategic communication at the PR firm PMK-BNC, put it: “He’s getting into the most emotionally and politically charged area that he can get into in American culture, which is the relationship and history between black people and white people in this country. He’s ratcheted this up a notch.”

Really?  That’s what he got from this?  It’s fascinating to me that people are turning this into a racial thing and ignoring the rest.  I mean, yes, obviously it is full of horrible racial slurs.  But it is almost like this Ross Johnson didn’t hear this part:  “I am going to come and burn the f–king house down… but you will blow me first.”  Or this:  ’Mel told Oksana she looked like a “f—ing pig in heat” who — because of her fashion sense — risked getting “raped by a pack of n—ers.” “It will be your fault,” Mel said.’

Isn’t this an incident of domestic abuse/violence, first and foremost?  Am I the only one taking it this way?  Doesn’t it sound very close to being OJ Simpson kind of crazy?  Is it now okay to mentally (and allegedly, physically) abuse the mother of your child, just as long as you don’t use the N-word?  Is it just easier to think that he is a racist and ignore the rest?  Have we suddenly regressed 20 years in the area of domestic violence awareness?  Did we learn nothing from those pictures of Nicole Brown Simpson and Rheanna, or Nicole and OJ’s 911 tape?

Mel apparently has a few movies lined up to be released in the next year.  Is anyone going to see them?  And if so, what does it say about our culture.  If Chris Brown remains a pariah (and rightfully so), shouldn’t Mel too forever be remembered for this?  I will be interested to see who in Hollywood is willing to work with Mel in the future, especially considering the supposed enlightened and liberal viewpoints of those in the industry.  Then again, many of them lined up to show support for Roman Polanski, a convicted child rapist.  So what do I know about their morality.  But it’s something to consider when deciding to whom you should give your $10 per movie.

 

Bring your kid to work….Never June 24, 2010

Filed under: Office Craziness,Opinion,Random — daisyjacobs @ 2:29 pm
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I was just in the ladies room and in popped a little girl, around 10 years old.   Where did she come from?  Well probably she was a guest at the retirement party for C that everyone but my department was invited to (outcasts!). 

Kids in the workplace is a pet peeve of mine.  This is something that I had never experienced until I came to work here.  People bring their kids in all the time.  And I don’t mean the occasional spouse showing up with the kids for lunch.  I mean they just show up and hang out.  For hours.  I can’t count how many times a screaming 3 year old has come running by my office.  How many times I’ve listened to someone’s infant cry during work hours.  A couple of weeks ago, someone couldn’t get a babysitter, so she just brought her child to work all day.  No, we don’t have on-site day care.  No, we don’t work at a toy company or anything related to children.  Why do kids even want to come here?  I don’t even want to come here and they are paying me.

My mom and I were discussing kids the other day.  Specifically, how people who are parents now seem to never want to leave their kids.  On this day we were at a charity walk with literally 70,000 other people.  It was 95 degrees and very humid.  Basically your normal summer day in the midwest.  But in the midst of this, many small children and babies.  I’m not a parent or a doctor, but I can’t imagine this is the proper weather or conditions to bring your infants outside for hours.  I don’t even make Sadie take walks outside in this weather.  Plus, you’d think people would be worried that they would lose their kids in a crowd this size. 

So, why not just leave them at home?  Are babysitters that hard to come by?  It seems like when we were little, our moms would leave us with the grandparents for these kinds of occasions.  Or you know, our dads.  I was just talking to a co-worker about this.  She was trying to plan a girls weekend with some friends, but one refuses to leave her daughter, with her own husband.  Seriously?  This leads me to another pet peeve, which is when I hear women say that the father of their children is “babysitting.”  I don’t think it is babysitting if it is your own kids.  I’m pretty sure that’s just parenting.

Of course, I’m no expert.

In completely unrelated news….yesterday I got my sandals from GoJane.  The photos on their website did not do them justice.  They are so incredibly adorable and I have gotten many compliments on my silver sandals today.

I’ll be gone the next few days on a girls weekend to Music City, aka Nashville.  Flood waters do not scare us!  Happy weekend, everyone.

 

 
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