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Mel Gibson is a ” f—— pig in heat” July 2, 2010

I’ve been following the Mel Gibson story the past two days in the same way that one can’t help but peek at a car accident.  In case you want the details, you can go to RadarOnline and read this.  It is full of insane cursing, insults, threats and his 8 month old baby crying in the background (so says Radar, obviously no one else has actually heard the tape).

Today, I read this article on The Daily Beast.  It is asking whether or not Mel’s career can recover from this.  They are comparing it to his infamous DUI arrest in 2006 when he proclaimed that Jews are “responsible for all the wars in the world” (hey Mel, does that include Jesus, the most famous Jew of all-time?  Just wondering since you are so ultra-religious) and called the female cop a most ridiculous name.  Here is a quote from the article that caught my eye and inspired me to write about this:

This seems to be the assumption, regardless of the fact that, as Ross Johnson, head of strategic communication at the PR firm PMK-BNC, put it: “He’s getting into the most emotionally and politically charged area that he can get into in American culture, which is the relationship and history between black people and white people in this country. He’s ratcheted this up a notch.”

Really?  That’s what he got from this?  It’s fascinating to me that people are turning this into a racial thing and ignoring the rest.  I mean, yes, obviously it is full of horrible racial slurs.  But it is almost like this Ross Johnson didn’t hear this part:  “I am going to come and burn the f–king house down… but you will blow me first.”  Or this:  ’Mel told Oksana she looked like a “f—ing pig in heat” who — because of her fashion sense — risked getting “raped by a pack of n—ers.” “It will be your fault,” Mel said.’

Isn’t this an incident of domestic abuse/violence, first and foremost?  Am I the only one taking it this way?  Doesn’t it sound very close to being OJ Simpson kind of crazy?  Is it now okay to mentally (and allegedly, physically) abuse the mother of your child, just as long as you don’t use the N-word?  Is it just easier to think that he is a racist and ignore the rest?  Have we suddenly regressed 20 years in the area of domestic violence awareness?  Did we learn nothing from those pictures of Nicole Brown Simpson and Rheanna, or Nicole and OJ’s 911 tape?

Mel apparently has a few movies lined up to be released in the next year.  Is anyone going to see them?  And if so, what does it say about our culture.  If Chris Brown remains a pariah (and rightfully so), shouldn’t Mel too forever be remembered for this?  I will be interested to see who in Hollywood is willing to work with Mel in the future, especially considering the supposed enlightened and liberal viewpoints of those in the industry.  Then again, many of them lined up to show support for Roman Polanski, a convicted child rapist.  So what do I know about their morality.  But it’s something to consider when deciding to whom you should give your $10 per movie.

 

The traveling tornado that is Joran Van der Sloot June 14, 2010

Filed under: Current Events — daisyjacobs @ 2:03 pm
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The word today is that Joran Van der Sloot fears for his life.  The irony here is that while he fears being harmed or killed, young girls around the world can now feel safer with him behind bars.  Joran fascinates me.  Actually the entire Natalee Holloway case fascinates me.  It all started five years ago, when I was fresh out of grad school and unemployed.  This left me with too much free time.  Time to watch Court TV, Nancy Grace and that Dan Abrams show that used to be on MSNBC.  I was just coming off my addiction to the Scott Peterson trial when suddenly here was a whole new mystery that I couldn’t get enough of.

Hollywood couldn’t write a story like the one we are still witnessing five years later.  Here was Natalee and her friends, at the ripe age of 17, on a class trip to Aruba.  (Aruba.  Really?  Our senior class trip was an afternoon at a baseball game.  I’m not even kidding.  But I digress.)  I can imagine the fun times they had.  The same new experiences the rest of us had when we left for college – no parents, no curfew, lots of alcohol – these kids had in paradise.  It must have been a dream. 

Everything goes well until the last night.  That night they head to a casino and then onto the now infamous Carlos & Charlie’s.  In what seems to be his pattern, Joran shows up at the casino.  The American girls must have been pretty impressed.  Let’s be honest, the guy is cute.  And has an accent.  And they are in a foreign country.  I don’t know many teenage girls that would not be intrigued.  So they all go off to the bar.  This is where the story takes a very sad turn.  They are all drinking of course.  I know from the great Lifetime movie made about the case, there were body shots involved.  The bar closed at 1 am.  I’m sure Natalee was a very sweet girl, but by all accounts, she was pretty wasted.  None of us know what happens next, no one but Joran, but it was bad and she was never seen again.  The next day, her classmates return home without her.

So this is what bothers me – Why don’t her friends stop her from getting into a car with three strange guys?  I can’t understand this.  She obviously was not thinking clearly.  I wouldn’t let my 30 year old friends do something this stupid.  But they just let her go.  I’ve always thought that if there was one positive to this story, it would be that perhaps young girls everywhere would learn their lesson.  Do not leave bars with strangers.  And don’t let your friends.  Unfortunately, no one learned this lesson.  And we know this because five years to the day, another girl left a casino with Joran Van der Sloot and never went home.

I keep watching the surveillance videos of Joran with Stephany Flores.  Meeting at the casino table.  Entering the hotel room with Stephany, and then leaving alone.  New clothes and holding coffee cups.  Calming walking out like he hasn’t a care in the world.  It is the creepiest video I’ve ever seen, because we know now what happened between the last two videos.

It makes you wonder what Joran has been up to these past five years.  And I mean what has he been up to besides traveling around the world and torturing the Holloway family with all of his false confessions.  You have to wonder how many more young girls there were, in countries like Thailand, where no one had ever heard of Natalee.  How many more left a casino with Joran and never went home.

I hate to sound unkind or politically incorrect, but I truly don’t care what happens to Joran in the Peruvian prison.  The best part of the story for me is that I’ve always believed that he got away with killing Natalee because his father was a powerful man in Aruba.  And now, oh the irony, Joran kills the daughter of an extremely powerful man in Peru.  Good luck with that trial, Joran.

 

Oil Spill Mess Keeps Getting Worse – How to Help June 11, 2010

If you are like me, you have been feeling pretty helpless while watching all of the news footage about the oil spill disaster.  Today, Gizmodo published a great post about how to help.  The article has a longer list of who to donate money to, but here are a few:

The Colbert Nation Gulf of America Fund  (as far as I know, Stephen Colbert is the only celebrity working on fundraising, so kudos)

Coalition to Restore Coastal Louisiana  (has info about volunteering and donating)

National Audubon Society  (wildlife help)

National Wildlife Federation  (helping the wildlife, obviously)

Greater New Orleans Foundation  (funds to help fishermen and others affected)

I haven’t yet seen any way to donate via cell phone like there was for Haiti relief.  Hopefully that will be coming soon.

 

Today’s Mish Mash June 10, 2010

Today, just some random thoughts:

- Yesterday I wrote about sex tapes and got my first hits via web searches.  It really increased my traffic.  Apparently a lot of people search ‘sex tape.’  So, don’t be surprised if every post I write from now on somehow mentions sex tapes.  And Kim Kardashian.

- In today’s version of ‘What the President was doing while fishermen continued to lose sleep about their future,’ he and Michelle hosted what is apparently an annual Congressional picnic.  Congress has really worked hard this year accomplishing nothing so they really needed to get together and relax.  I’m sure they used their time together to come up with some great ideas about saving wildlife.  I wonder if all the Republicans sit on one set of picnic tables and the Democrats on another.  And poor Joe Lieberman just wanders aimlessly.

- I have yet to hear from my insurance company regarding the previously mentioned car accident.  It has now been two weeks since I last heard from my claims person.  No answer to email or phone call.  It’s this kind of customer service that gives insurance companies such good reputations.  I know my blog is called ‘No Names, Only Details’, however I am pretty close to outing them.

- Today my running assignment is to run 11 minutes/walk 1 minute, three times.  Tomorrow I start week 4 of the program.

- Tonight I’m going to see ‘Sex and the City 2′ and perhaps ‘Letters to Juliet.’  Reviews to come tomorrow!

 

Nothing ruins your day faster than an oil spill the size of New England (and growing) June 5, 2010

Filed under: Current Events,Politics — daisyjacobs @ 8:40 pm
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Well here goes my first serious post.  I’ve been in a bit of a war of words with others on JP’s blog 56 Rebels.  People saying we shouldn’t blame Obama, or I guess, ask too much of him.  Who cares if he goes on vacation repeatedly during this crisis?  Who cares if he spends more time with Paul McCartney than he did with the citizens of Louisiana?  He is only one man, they say over and over again.

I consider myself an independent, politically.  I truly think both parties are responsible for most of our problems.  One is as useless and evil as the other.  My dad is very much a Republican but also taught us to respect the office of the presidency no matter what.  So, this is really not personal.  But here’s the thing about the oil spill.  I’m infuriated by the administration’s lack of response.  I see these stories, day after day…the spill’s getting worse, BP can’t fix it, 5000 barrels of oil a day – no wait – make that 19,000 barrels of oil a day.  More and more fishermen looking completely stunned on the news with no idea of how to pay their bills or how or why this happened to them.  Mayors of small towns in tears.  A Congressman from Louisiana breaking down on the House floor.  Birds covered in oil.  Fish dead.  Shrimp dead.  11 men on that oil rig, dead.  I do not know the last time I felt this sad.  My heart is breaking for them.  For all of the people and for all of the wildlife.

I don’t expect that the President is magic.  I do not expect him to go down to Louisiana, snap his fingers and come up with a solution on how to stop it.  I really don’t.  But what makes me so angry is, I get the feeling that he just does not care.  I get the feeling that for him, this is just a nuisance.  Maybe I’m wrong.  Maybe this keeps him up at night.  Maybe he and Michelle sit on the sofa with tears in their eyes watching the same pictures that I do.  But I don’t see it.  I know his reputation is that he is the guy who stays even.  That is great in most circumstances.  But not now.  Now we need him angry.  We need him so angry that he unleashes a wrath of fury on that idiot CEO who said he ‘wanted his life back.’  As Spike Lee recently said, “If there was ever a time to go off, this is it.”

I know GWB made a thousand horrible decisions as president.  I know his response to Hurricane Katrina was unforgivable.  There is no denying that.  I can’t even get started on the war in Iraq.  That’s for another time.  But I have a picture in my head of him after 9/11.  I remember hearing him speak during news conferences and interviews and cabinet meetings.  I remember such anger in his voice.  Such hurt, on the verge of tears.  I knew that he felt what we were feeling.  Sitting in my living room all the way in the midwest, I knew he was as angry as I was.  There’s a reason why his popularity rate went up to something like 90% during that time.  In our darkest hour, he understood.  And he got mad.  That is what we need now from President Obama.

A part of me thinks the problem is that people in other parts of the country just don’t understand the magnitude of what is happening.  I mean, where are the trendy celebs and their telethons?  When is the benefit concert for suddenly out of work fishermen?  For people in the Gulf region, this is their 9/11.  It is.  You can argue that Katrina was.  Maybe.  But they can and are rebuilding from Katrina.  You CAN rebuild from a hurricane.  You just need time and money.  The difference here is that just time and money won’t fix the consequences of an oil spill the size of New England and growing.  Yes, eventually they will figure out how to stop the oil.  Yes, the ecosystem may recover.  But it will be decades or more from now.  People who are fourth, fifth generation fishermen, aren’t comforted by that.  They need someone to stick up for them right now.

So, what do I want from Obama?  I want him to show us he cares.  I want him to put the people of the Gulf region ahead of photo ops with the NCAA basketball champions.  He is leader of the free world.  He has the power to pressure the BP execs.  He has the power to establish a system of help for those who are suffering financially.  He has the power to enlist the help of every wildlife expert in the world to help save whatever can be saved.  He has the power to order the Coast Guard to do whatever they need to do to start cleaning up the water as best they can.  I don’t care how much money he has to spend.  I don’t care if he has to move the entire White House staff and his cabinet to Louisiana temporarily.  Just get it done.

That is all.

 

 
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